i am extremely annoyed if somebody is responding with statements like that. I prefer to be asked questions instead!
2024-05-03 20:19:14
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fierce_femme_vibes❌ :
But how do I get people to open up to me less?
2024-05-01 21:25:05
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Exposed :
Depends on the person I would say. Some people may tend to open up w statements. Some people open up more w questions. Have to know who you’re talking to
2024-05-01 22:05:30
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Goldie :
As an ND, I usually think, " Yeah, I just said that" and wonder if they were paying attention at all. So that's fun
2024-05-02 02:12:54
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Kevin :
How you ask is important. Be a curious student and they will love to be your expert.
2024-05-01 22:04:46
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Marcus Held :
If there’s genuine interest, anything goes any way
2024-05-03 03:15:58
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softcoremessiah :
Active listening and unconditional positive regard
2024-05-02 03:01:56
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Obsydnian :
If somebody doesn’t ask me questions it makes me feel like they’re not interested in what I think. Totally not accurate for everyone
2024-05-03 14:37:50
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Adam Kim :
i know im going to apply this wrong already.
"I'm so tired of living"
me: 🤔.. sounds like the end for u 💀
2024-05-02 02:25:33
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chromarelus94 :
that's really smart
2024-05-04 03:28:29
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Good Chat :
"I'm really tired"
"It sounds like you're really tired"
"It sounds like you heard that I'm really tired"
"I appreciate you acknowledging that I'm very tired"
2024-06-26 11:12:31
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ScottB5484 :
Disagree. I was a reporter and learned to listen and ask follow up questions
2024-05-01 22:52:18
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YT/Substack/IG@HerSocialTakes :
I don't think this applies to neurodivergent people 😂 but I know we aren't a monolith. but I'm taking notes 📝
2024-05-02 01:10:48
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swagbabygoblin :
just be yourself. we overthink everything lol chat, ask questions, be curious. it doesn’t matter 🤣
2024-05-31 22:44:14
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Nativian :
the type of questions are what is important.
questions themselves don't necessarily make people defensive
2024-05-01 23:35:37
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David Hofmann :
The next sentence would be, 'what happened'? And the other person gladly elaborates. Questions prompt people to elaborate
2024-07-03 15:32:25
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sri :
it's like validating someone's feelings or situations
2024-05-05 15:28:26
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DoM :
questions make you feel like why do you want to know so much...
2024-07-09 23:23:54
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Akius :
I think there's a grain of Truth to what you're saying, but you need to resource this topic. lot more, refine you your ideas and then make the tick tock
2024-05-27 03:52:17
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private person :
I'm going to keep asking questions, because then I know who to avoid based on their reactions.
2024-06-28 10:38:30
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HurricaneTortilla :
Can you recommend a book so that I can learn more about this and how to carry conversiations and small talks?
2024-06-30 12:36:37
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Schadenfreude01 :
So, act like ChatGPT.
2024-05-03 19:00:08
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John Driscoll :
I like this approach. My MIL thinks that asking questions shows interest but I always feel like she’s controlling the conversation
2024-05-05 17:47:23
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Yurr :
nah questions are good, wouldnt be able to tell you how to ask or what kind, but if ykyk
2024-05-04 00:17:35
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