@conflictish: Our frustration with other people’s ignorance usually points to our own cognitive rigidity and in flexibility. Remember, common sense isn’t common. When you meet someone who lacks common sense, the least you can do is to act like you still have some.

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bontlemoleki
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just don’t talk to them
2026-10-24 21:40:51
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itsmesix
itsmesix :
“Speak to the level of your audience.” - It works ❣️
2026-08-29 17:40:00
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4958angela
4958angela :
Thanks.
2026-10-23 20:19:17
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missjacktown
Miss Jackie :
you don't
2026-08-29 21:29:32
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vtalktv3
VTALKTV3 |Wellnes | |Author :
For me, I have to talk to people who don’t have common sense because it’s part of my job. 😂 So when it comes to my personal life, it’s hard for me to have those type of people in my inner circle because I get overstimulated. Your video just gave me a reminder that not everybody you encounter lacks intelligence, but everybody does not have the same appetite or capacity for complexity, abstraction, nuance, psychological analysis, or extended conversation. And recognizing that can save an enormous amount of cognitive energy. So thank you for this reminder. 🙌🏽
2026-09-04 09:50:31
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geelario
GeelaRio :
what if it is a sibling and you think...my gosh we had the same parents so why are you so different?
2026-09-26 06:36:01
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coryechols
Cory Echols :
I CANNOT agree more!
2026-10-17 10:06:01
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pantomine
Panto_Mime :
It’s a struggle, I simply walk away, and avoid.
2026-10-06 16:16:27
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caribsun
Caribsun 🇯🇲 :
I learned this years ago, it’s been the most peaceful time of my life. Sometimes I do catch myself wanting to correct them but I just say “ok” and keep it moving.
2026-08-29 18:07:21
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drdwanreed
💜Relationship Therapist 💕💋 :
You just shared a remedy to de-stress. I love it!
2026-10-15 16:49:32
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ginaconway56
ginaconway :
I’d rather not deal with them. I’d rather cut them off. I have zero tolerance for stupidity and it does make me feel like they are insulting. My intelligence lies in stupidity. I don’t have space for it.
2026-09-24 10:02:17
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arigogliosi
arigogliosi :
💯 on point….beautifully said ❤️😂🌶️🥑
2026-09-25 13:29:13
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travelforshore
travelforshore :
Not me, I stay quiet and stay glad that I see how they think!😩🤣🤣🥰
2026-09-25 10:08:36
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teawithalthea
TeawithAlthea :
Tell me about it ...👌
2026-10-16 03:53:09
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thehoodaristocrat
Poodie Pie :
I absolutely do not challenge them. I’m not wasting g my brain cells or energy. It doesn’t threaten me.
2026-08-29 20:20:03
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moxy0857
RebelThinker :
you just earned a follow
2026-09-27 20:06:08
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ramonawilliams174
ramonawilliams174 :
It is literally exhausting😳
2026-10-08 05:24:19
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iamjaykaba
IamJayKaba :
I just be quiet
2026-09-23 00:46:51
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pams_peaceful_porch
Pam's Peace :
I don't bother talking to them.
2026-08-30 14:55:32
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marthal315
M💕L365 :
Yeah that is good. But it’s hard to speak to them at their level
2026-08-30 06:45:46
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sonyaholston2
sonyagwenay :
I've learned to nod and say ok, I see. and let it go. it saves my peace ✌🏽😊
2026-08-30 22:37:24
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quaciann
@Tanease🦋 :
Last night I prayed and I asked God for answers, thank you. This is my brother, twice in one week I had to hold my chest trying to talk sense into him, today I’m at peace separating myself. Bless you.
2026-10-17 16:22:33
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sweetgg1951
SweetGG :
Thank you for sharing. I truly needed this today. I’m a caregiver for a stroke patient, and his wife has No common sense. Tomorrow I will deal with the situation completely differently. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎
2026-09-24 09:15:08
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brownsugarandlemon
Brown Sugar and Lemon Tees :
that made me laugh so hard. this is a great question. you have to speak to them on their level
2026-08-30 12:28:21
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bylisecheeks
Lisecheeks :
Yep talk to your audience at the level of their understanding.
2026-08-29 22:53:30
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