@kelsier_84: Conversations with the "not all men" guys. #allmen #women #men #safety #janedoe

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anicole85
Ashley :
Keep this in mind also… every man who has ever hurt me (emotionally/physically) told me in the beginning that he “would never”. So telling a woman that “I would never” carries NO WEIGHT AT ALL!
2026-10-04 16:04:31
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thisbishnikki
Nikki :
“I know she’s safe. She doesn’t.” PERIOD.
2026-10-04 16:53:24
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kcbronco91
Travis Messer :
I am an Uber driver. I give my number out BECAUSE I know its all men until its no men. If they feel safe with me, they can call me again. i heard one of my regulars give my number to her friend saying "trust me. he's safe" and honestly it made my fucking year.
2026-10-06 07:43:23
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lemming_24
Liam :
I feel like so many guys want applause for not being a rapist. Like it’s not even the bare minimum to respect other people’s bodies?
2026-10-04 15:55:02
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lunchbox_82
Melancholy & the ♾ Dadness :
Treat every gun like it’s loaded til you know for sure it’s not.
2026-10-06 16:47:07
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ash.freakin.toler4
ASH.freakin.Toler :
My 9yo daughter is sitting by me and heard you and asked if another man is being dumb, I said, "No baby, he's saying what good men would say to "It's All Men." She watched your video and then we had a conversation. I'm trying to teach her, warn her, prepare her as well as I can so she will stay safe.
2026-10-04 18:49:52
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chewy_meat_stick
chewy_meat_stick :
I was one of those guys that got offended at that phrase. It’s taken me a while to fully grasp, comprehend, and understand why girls/women think and feel this way. Because I know I’m not a threat does not equate to anyone else automatically assuming the same. I’d rather my wife and daughters have this mentality than to trust any guy they encounter in their everyday lives unassumingly. It is absolutely all of us until it’s none of us.
2026-10-25 17:52:28
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boraaurorealis
Aurora Borealis :
THANK YOU. this is what an ally looks like 🔥❤️
2026-10-25 08:22:43
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user053161658
Manuel Perez de la M :
I hate feeling like a threat, but it’s not about me. It’s not about any one guy. It’s about the fact that any guy a girl doesn’t know is a potential threat. Hell, even a guy a girl does know can quickly become a threat. The fact that so many guys get defensive about it is part of the issue.
2026-10-04 17:42:46
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_abby_g
🩷Abby🩷 :
We say “all men” because when we trust the wrong man, we’re to blame for trusting them instead of them being blamed for hurting us
2026-10-04 18:21:08
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ls_love_forever
💙💚 :
Had a guy behind me in a dark parking lot one time say "I have the blue Acura. I'm just going to my vehicle. If it's near yours, I promise I'm not following you." He then beeped the alarm a couple of times so I knew he wasn't lying. That's the energy women need.
2026-10-12 00:48:00
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jillmariemcginnis
Jill McGinnis 🇨🇦 :
exactly, well said!
2026-10-24 15:41:57
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ashes92214
Ash3s :
even if she does know you. sometimes the man you think is safe is the one that betrays you. so even if she knows you....she cant trust you fully
2026-10-24 11:18:28
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mandapanda3812
Amanda Rae :
This!!! Even i worry when I'm out and I'm definitely not the type that has to worry as much but I swear to god every time i go out i am on guard for myself and my friends. Watching drinks and groups of guys and ones talking to a friend of my group ect. Thank you for understanding is not you personally but its you as a whole!
2026-10-25 16:31:30
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gagaoffive
Gaga 🇨🇦 :
I was in a situation once where a man I had NO interest in showed up at my door and attacked me. He was so fast and I was so shocked that I was in real danger. Then a large man came down the apartment hall, the door was still open, he saw what was happening and beat the hell out of the guy attacking me. Sadly this is not the end of the story because the next time I saw my rescuer he was all over me. He felt I owed him sex because he saved me from the first rapey guy. It never really ends.
2026-10-07 02:29:36
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fnatik
FNATIK :
Someone's fear doesn't automatically establish your guilt, but your innocence doesn't automatically entitle you to their trust.
2026-10-17 04:10:44
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deeanndilbeck
Deeann Dilbeck :
Thank you Sir..I appreciate you 💜💜
2026-10-25 22:31:32
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omgshann
Shannon :
Seeing this on my fyp because my husband shared it damn near brought a tear to my eye.
2026-10-09 12:33:27
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theteshtube
Tesh :
"you treat every gun as loaded even if you're pretty sure it's not, because getting it wrong can be deadly" way back when this was the thing that rewired how I thought about it, hope it helps others understand too
2026-10-07 15:01:36
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carafry885
Cara Fry885 :
"I want her to treat me like I'm one of them because that's how she stays safe". The problem is that a lot of men do not care if we are safe.
2026-10-04 16:00:36
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alexadorable13
Alexandra :
the respect I have for men like you. the man I am seeing was making out with me in his bed and wanted more. but I wasn't ready and he instantly stopped everything. and he asked what was okay. 10/10 man
2026-10-12 22:26:17
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ichwarkonrad
richardwonka :
A good approach to explaining this.
2026-10-04 14:39:16
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dd824132
DD :
You get it.
2026-10-04 15:46:49
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cjcampy
Chris Campagna :
I don’t get why this is such a difficult concept 😭😭
2026-10-04 18:48:38
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jgonnamakeit5
Jason :
Just because I know she's safe. Doesn't mean she knows it. THAT PART!!!!!
2026-10-04 15:32:51
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