Mark Manson
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Thursday 22 October 2026 13:00:00 GMT
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Little Miss Vegan 🌱 :
My worry is never finding out😅
2026-10-23 13:13:34
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Akin♾️ :
Normal people worry about getting cheated on, I worry about not knowing or finding out, I never wanna do shit with someone post cheating, both physical and emotional. imagine hugging, caring, loving, and never knowing.
2026-10-22 13:19:11
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kelsey_x3 :
This ain’t it. Betrayal trauma is real and something I will live with for the rest of my life.
2026-10-23 13:40:28
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JAQUEEN 👸 :
I agree! To those who say their biggest fear is not finding out… I have made peace with what I don’t know, I can’t do anything or control what I don’t know, but once I know that’s when the ball is in my court. I don’t want to spend my time and energy trying to find out, it’s not worth the stress! I’m also a strong believer that what happens in the dark will come to light
2026-10-25 05:57:57
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Adam :
Im in an open marraige for 5 years thank god I dont have to worry about cheating lol
2026-10-25 05:08:58
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IAMASB :
no cheater is honest about it… you have to deal with you not knowing
2026-10-23 08:11:26
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Eric Michael Hopper :
it's called cheating because they hide it and keep you strung along in the dark while they use you. discovering the cheating is the liberating part not the cheating. They don't do it behind your back and then come tell you. there's nothing they're telling you to believe. they're hiding it while you have to deal with process of not knowing but dealing with any confusion that comes from their behavior while they're deceiving you. they will lie right to your face call you crazy then walk out the door and call the other person and start laughing.
2026-10-22 20:34:07
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James :
The art of being secure. The only time I’ve been insecure about a relationship is because I’ve been dating an insecure person. It’s a sign …
2026-10-22 14:24:34
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ejobar75 :
"It's also weirdly one of the most freeing things that can happen..." Well, unless it leaves STDs...
2026-10-22 19:41:33
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LJ 🦘 :
Oh gee if only it was that easy lol
2026-10-25 01:00:14
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Tee💕 :
I should have found this sooner😅
2026-10-25 06:05:23
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katelynjai :
I feel this way too. It’s hurtful, but if they’re cheating they weren’t a person that I even want. I think the majority of cheaters do get caught… I really fucking hope so anyways 😅
2026-10-24 11:53:31
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exzeegee :
yeah the problem is that they hide it and change behavior, and they are not upfront, if they we're honest and open, that would be simple
2026-10-22 18:31:38
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tiyanjane💕 :
l wish l did
2026-10-23 23:54:33
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Tben :
I'm not worried that they will cheat, I'm worried that they will cheat and I only find out 20 years in
2026-10-23 23:22:44
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Ahmed A :
I always saw it as an opportunity to get a new girl.
2026-10-22 22:00:42
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I’m not worried about the cheating I’m worried I won’t find
2026-10-23 08:14:32
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xian :
now you just reminded me😏
2026-10-23 07:23:09
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Nobody. :
No, cmon. give more to that... What if you invest in that relationship and you only find out about it after 5years. Tell us Mr.
2026-10-23 09:25:03
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I G982 :
Now I have to split everything I own including our business, the kids will have to live between 2 homes, and my trust in other people will be shattered... but all that's easy right?
2026-10-22 22:09:57
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Jean Dizon :
Eye opener. Going through the grieving process is freeing too.
2026-10-22 16:29:02
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RandomChick3000❌ :
Clearly, you’ve never heard of betrayal trauma, and to say that it’s “freeing“ is really reductionist.
2026-10-23 11:16:51
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Dennis Lawardi :
On theory yes its easy, but when it comes to reality, its still not enough to help you move on from who you thought to be the one. Because your brain just can’t seem to recognize that fact that the person no longer exist. You still love the ghost of the person
2026-10-23 03:52:43
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Armando Nori :
It happened to me and that’s totally true. I didn’t have the courage to end my relationship but it made it easier when she cheated.
2026-10-22 16:34:35
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Kennedy :
I’ve heard this take a lot, and as much as I love your content, I’ve got to disagree. This is true when you’re young, but as a middle aged man who has been cheated on a few times in the past, I don’t have time to just wait and see. I’ve got to vet that out early if I can. Some people have the capacity to cheat and some don’t. Look before you leap otherwise you’ll run out of time and not be able to make any more leaps.
2026-10-23 01:37:30
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