Jen Hamilton
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Sunday 25 October 2026 03:26:53 GMT
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Hello :
Ugh. Are u following h3h3 cheating betrayal. It’s diabolical
2026-10-25 03:29:45
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ceebo__ :
From my therapist: you were a different person when you believed him. You would see through it if you went back now, but you didn’t know not to believe him then. You were giving him the benefit of the goodness in you, but we only can see after that they didn’t deserve that benefit. So we were viewing it with what we knew at the time
2026-10-26 00:31:02
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Professional_Dadvice BCBA, LBA :
Just realized this is kind of what religious deconstruction felt like.
2026-10-25 03:54:52
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Amber Dedeaux :
I always explain in a metaphorical sense. I truly loved my husband and intended to be married to him for life. And then, all of a sudden, a stranger wearing my husband’s face, walked into our house, and 💀 my husband, right in front of me.
2026-10-25 04:39:22
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Tricare_ triceratops :
It sucks to grieve a person and a life that was never real.
2026-10-25 03:37:15
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Detective Dips :
You believed in the potential that was there..he didn’t fool you babe, he chose to not be who he could have been… you have nothing to forgive yourself for. I’m proud of you 🫶🏾
2026-10-25 03:32:18
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Kelsey DG :
oh it’s very wicked. The second round of anger is diabolical when it’s not watered down by sad.
2026-10-25 04:02:30
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o_honey :
And then the "gift" of having to establish a healthy co-parenting relationship with that person for the sake of your kids.
2026-10-25 14:42:03
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Rosa :
I’m 10 years divorced from a 30 year relationship and this is the first time someone said what my brain felt. I didn’t have the words. How did I not see it? I trusted him so much. With everything in me. It was all a lie? How? I still don’t understand really.
2026-10-25 08:11:45
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Emily :
I saw my ex husband for the first time in 4 years since our divorce and oh.my.goodness-the veil is broken. He looked horrible from 4 more years of heavy drinking (also has an elderly gf who owns a bar). When he noticed me his body language completely changed as if he was struck my a bolt of guilt. I had a mini panic attack but my now boyfriend was so supportive and loving. I always wondered if karma would find him…I got my confirmation today. She has his number.. remember that!
2026-10-25 07:25:54
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Donna Marie :
It’s worse when you see it dawning on your kids’ face about the person you chose for their dad. Could I have known how cruel that person would become even to the point of hurting them to get back at me? No. Do I still blame myself? Yes.
2026-10-25 03:33:49
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Crystal | actually doing it :
You do your best with the information you have. Know better, do better. And you did
2026-10-25 03:30:55
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Crissy :
It’s also another layer when you realize their entire family was in on it. 25 years, 9 kids. He left for a younger woman after I devoted my life to him and the kids! The family court in AZ has allowed him to continue to financially abuse me.
2026-10-26 04:47:16
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Skin_Salt_andEarthHG :
I’m going through this, all the “good” memories are tainted. So eerie
2026-10-26 04:35:06
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Jiggliestbit :
looking at someone you've built a life around and realising it was founded on either their own deceit or your own delusion..it's a unique pain.
2026-10-25 11:46:05
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Jess :
Yep…. Then they go off and have dinner with your mother…. Who also betrayed you…
2026-10-26 02:52:49
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socal.sapphic.swiftie :
So real Jen 🫶🏻
2026-10-26 04:48:05
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M Graz :
cognitive dissonance is crazy!
2026-10-25 03:52:18
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Deb Garcia :
As Maya Angelou said, "when you know better, you do better" Give yourself GRACE❤️
2026-10-25 04:03:03
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Kym - Outdone and Over It :
This is so true. I’m realizing that in the 29 years I was married he was really good at placating. He was such a coward and disconnected from his own emotions lying was his comfort zone.
2026-10-25 04:25:13
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Dallas Meadows :
Think of the forgiveness you would give to your sister or your best friend over this, and then double that and give it to yourself!!
2026-10-25 04:58:28
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marghostly13 :
There’s a line in patient zero where she talks about it was because they were bathing in your reflecting light and that’s soo true
2026-10-25 04:08:47
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liveloveliterature :
After we had been divorced for nearly two years I found out my ex had a kid almost the same age as our oldest. It’s been a ride.
2026-10-25 16:15:16
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user8553418051109 :
Forgive yourself for what you didn’t know, before you knew.
2026-10-25 03:55:51
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MichelleB 🌸 :
Sitting across from them in mediation and court while they’re fighting you when they chose to leave is really something
2026-10-25 03:44:42
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