@teaguzzles: Replying to @there is still time closure is something you give yourself #breakup #relationships #boundaries #boundarysetting #relationshipadvice
The sad thing is I often feel the answer is "because you let them." Because you won't walk away.
2026-10-27 01:03:11
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Jen🗝 :
Me: *gently shaking People Pleasers by the shoulders* The INTENTION doesn't matter if the RESULT is them HURTING YOU
2026-10-27 01:38:55
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meowmrowoww :
it just makes me sad because people do me dirty in ways id never even imagine doing to them
2026-10-27 00:55:23
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iamfergo :
They probably don’t even know. The reasoning is often subconscious
2026-10-27 08:18:35
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Silly_Eyelash :
Hey so you ate this up
2026-10-27 08:35:14
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sziusbius :
I wish more people with beautiful souls would understand this
2026-10-26 21:38:43
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user5774464650086 :
need to save this to re-listen to
2026-10-27 08:31:32
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tired of 🇺🇸🇮🇱💩 :
i always remove myself from the situation regardless of if its family, "friends", coworkers, managers, partners, etc
2026-10-27 01:54:01
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Dollface11 :
Facts yo !
2026-10-27 05:38:14
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Lazy Angel :
Learning that I couldn't control how someone felt about me kinda helped back then for some reason
2026-10-27 02:26:10
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🍓 :
ok but why it does it keep happening i feel like when it’s a repeating thing there might be something attracting this over and over
2026-10-27 03:20:46
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egg toaster :
knowing what the reason is ok, but instead of making a reaction and boundaries, you're wasting your time intellectualizing their behavior.
2026-10-27 07:17:13
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HertzandSpace :
It sucks to hear but you're completely right.
2026-10-26 21:41:15
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G :
Intellectualizing only becomes a trap when it becomes rumination. Intellectualizing and feeling the feelings are integral to emotional processing. But lots of us fall into the trap of rumination
2026-10-27 02:03:58
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justtryingtoloveeveryone :
that's on boundaries
2026-10-27 01:32:13
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icy_doc :
every road leads to having to seat with my feelings
2026-10-26 21:37:07
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sabinahasanova395 :
I need to hear it on repeat and use it as my inner voice
2026-10-26 21:39:43
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palomasplayground :
Yesss I’m at this point no matter the reason if it’s something I don’t like or want then I’m going to leave
2026-10-26 23:30:06
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kk :
I love supporting small creators
2026-10-26 21:41:59
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Emily June :
I tried to understand why my sister was so domineering and jealous and kept ruining my special occasions for therapy for three years and all it did was make me worse. Just peep behaviors and distance accordingly
2026-10-27 03:06:38
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10klumens🌟 :
but what i'm worried about is if they could tell me something so i could change that thing about myself and improve. i understand it won't make the choice easier, but i really just wanna know if i've done something wrong, yknow?
2026-10-27 02:49:18
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sara somar :
my fave tat says you will never know why. i was always asking people who treated me like shit why and then i realized you really will never know why no matter what they or anyone else says.
2026-10-27 07:27:10
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Lili Antonette :
Literally I’m not a psychologist I don’t care why they did what they did. The reality is I’m having a bad experience and I don’t want to 😭
2026-10-27 03:57:57
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86cookies :
i have this dumb habit. like oh that person probably had a bad day or bad childhood growing up to be acting like this and how I should respond according to that while making up a whole backstory and science behind the brain maybe they'reon a spectrum. literally could've been like, they did this and based on the situation is it valid? was it somewhat reasonable, if not what will I do about it, will I act on it or let it go (does not justify the action). if i do the action will they continue, if so would it be better to let it go (meaning accepting that they aren't gonna change and im not going to be considering their feelings anymore)
2026-10-27 02:31:26
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